Video games: a double-edged sword for kids
Playing opens doors in technology and coding
Video games sparked my interest in computers at a young age. By age 12, I had started earning money teaching programming skills. I continued honing my software abilities through various computer-related jobs. Games acted as an entry point into exciting careers in tech.
Motivating academic performance with rewards and incentives
Offering tokens redeemable for gaming time can encourage kids to work hard in school. My nephew earned three WoW tokens for getting good grades, including two A’s. This alternative form of motivation helped him improve his report card.
Setting clear guidelines around homework, chores and screen time
Games must be limited if schoolwork or responsibilities are unfinished. Daily time restrictions, like one hour after school, ensure a balance. Education needs to take priority over gaming every time.
Addressing mental health issues driving excessive play
If a child only wants to game, find out why. They may feel distressed or lack direction. Talk to understand how they truly feel and if deeper issues need addressing. Games could be masking other problems.
Scheduling varied activities and hobbies
Quality game sessions are best as rewards after accomplishing goals. Reserve times for other pursuits kids enjoy as well. Encourage exploring diverse interests outside of just playing games.
Leading by positive role modeling of work-life balance
Parents must practice what they preach through managing their own screen use judiciously. Make time for family amid responsibilities to set the right example at home.
Striking a balance with accountability rather than strictness
The ideal approach isn’t too controlling or permissive. Disciplinary responses should suit misbehaviors. Frank discussions build trust and mutual understanding in families.
Games opening doors when applied to careers and passions
With self-discipline, gaming interests can lead somewhere. They exposed me to tech and helped start my career path. For kids, it depends how skills and enthusiasm get channeled going forward.